A Spotlight Shines On One Queens Hero

By Angela Montefinise

When Woodhaven native Adrien Brody walked up to the podium this week to accept his Oscar for best actor at the Academy Awards, “The Pianist” star became the youngest man ever to win best actor honors, beating out Hollywood favorites like Jack Nicholson and Daniel Day Lewis.

But when his moment at the microphone came, Brody shifted the spotlight to his old high school buddy Tommy Zarobinski of Rego Park . . . an Army Reservist currently stationed in Kuwait. 

Brody said during the show, “And I have a friend from Queens who’s a soldier in Kuwait right now, Tommy Zarobinski, and I hope you and your boys make it back real soon. God bless you guys. I love you.”

Tommy’s parents — Ada and Thomas Zarobinski — were thrilled. Thomas said, “Could you imagine, the biggest moment of this kid’s life, and he mentions my son,” and Ada added, “Now that’s a great friend. Here he is, a big star, and he thought of Tommy . . . That’s my Adrien.”

Dozens of supportive phone calls and visits descended on the family’s modest Rego Park apartment – the place where Tommy has lived his entire life.

But despite their excitement over their son’s Oscar mention, Ada and Thomas have other thoughts on their minds. They somberly watch the news every night, hoping to see their son alive and safe.

Ada can’t eat, and is having trouble sleeping. She said, “That’s my baby out there. All of this attention is nice, and Adrien is so wonderful, but I wish I could just see my son. I just want him back.”

As Ada sat with a PRESS reporter in the Zarobinski apartment this week, she smiled proudly as she talked about her 31-year-old son Tommy. She said, “He’s such a sweet guy. Always smiling, always happy. He’s always upbeat.”

In fact, before leaving for the Middle East last month with other reservists from Bayside’s Fort Totten, Tommy told Ada that he was proud to fight for his country, and said, “Don’t worry, mommy. Everything will be fine. Nothing’s going to happen.”

Ada said, “My son is very brave. He’s always been very brave. But I’ll tell you what, I’m scared to death. I watch the news, and I get so nervous . . . I just want him to come home. That’s all I want.”

Tommy has called his parents since arriving in the Middle East, and is in “good spirits,” Ada said. 

He sounded particularly happy on March 27, when he was interviewed by Jay Leno during a segment on the host’s late night show featuring Brody. It was the first time he had been heard from in over a week. At presstime Zarobinski’s parents were not available for comment on the interview.

The Zarobinski family has gotten “so much support from friends” over the past few weeks, Ada said, that “it’s hard not to stay positive.” She said, “So many people are telling me he will be fine. So many people are praying for him. I know God will protect him.”

But God isn’t the only one, Ada said.

Kenny — Ada and Thomas Zarobinski’s only other child — was one year older than Tommy and died of a heart attack on Nov. 11, 2001. Ada said, “I just can’t lose another child. I don’t know what I’ll do.”

She said the loss was “extremely difficult,” but said, “Now, I know Kenny is watching over Tommy overseas. He won’t let anything happen to him.”

Two months before he died, Kenny helped Ada get through another difficult day in her life . . .  Sept. 11, 2001.

Queens native Tommy Zarobinski was mentioned at the Academy Awards. Photo Courtesy of the Zarobinski family

Tommy was working as a security guard in a building next door to the World Trade Center. He had taken the job after serving in the National Guard from 1997 to 2001, stationed in places like Kosovo and Macedonia. He enlisted in the Reserves at Fort Totten in Bayside shortly after returning, but took a job as a security guard in the meantime.

On that morning, Ada said, “He was right there. He told me he could feel the building shake. He could have left, but his job was to make sure the building was secure, and he didn’t leave. He’s so brave, my son.”

With phone service cut off, Tommy couldn’t call his parents to tell them he was alright, and Ada said, “I was a wreck that day. I was so scared and upset, and Kenny kept saying, ‘Mom, don’t worry, he’ll be fine. Tommy is strong, nothing will happen to him.’”

Sure enough, at 2 a.m., Tommy came home covered in soot, but safe. Ada said, “I hugged him and hugged him. I kissed the ground when he walked in . . . Can you imagine he survived that, and now I’m worried about him again over there fighting. It’s very hard on me.”

Ada has had a hard time dealing with her son being overseas, and is constantly watching the news.

However, on March 23 she made a point of flipping between war coverage and the Academy Awards, knowing that Brody was up for an award. She told the PRESS, “Adrien called me a few weeks ago and I told him, ‘You’re going to win Adrien.’ He said, ‘Yeah?’ I said, ‘Yes, I know it.’ People say he’s a long shot? Let me tell you, no way, I knew he would get it.”

She added, “I should have made a bet, but I don’t bet.”

But Ada didn’t actually watch her prediction come true – when Brody won, the Zarobinskis were watching a different channel.

They didn’t know what happened until a neighbor knocked at the door screaming, and Ada said, “You know what I thought when I heard that? I got so scared that something happened to my son.”

But when she heard the news, “I couldn’t believe it. My God, what a sweet boy Adrien is. He’s still thinking of Tommy. He didn’t have to say that, but he did anyway. He’s just beautiful.”

Tommy met Brody — a man Ada called his “closest friend” — while at Fiorello LaGuardia High School of the Performing Arts in Manhattan. The two had never met before, even though they lived only a few miles from each other in Queens.

Ada said, “Adrien came over for dinner a few times. He’s a really sweet boy. He and Tommy played electronic games and they played basketball and they went out for pizza. They are just regular guys.”

One evening Ada said she asked Brody to autograph a napkin while he was over the Zarobinski house for dinner. She said he happily obliged, and she said, “I told him, ‘One day, Adrien, this napkin is going to be very valuable. Not for money, but for me.’ He got all excited and said, ‘You think so Ada, you think so?’ I said, yes, I know it.”

Ada may be proud of Brody, but when it comes to art, she prefers the work of a different artist – her son.

She said that Tommy has been painting since he was three-years-old, and said, “He’s really very good. He was always drawing faces or painting.”

She excitedly pulled out an impressive landscape painting that Tommy made when he was six-years-old. She said, “He made it just for mommy . . . I remember he was so little, I couldn’t believe how good it was.”

Tommy is also a poet, and she said, “He’s written poetry. That’s why he went to the arts school, to do art and poetry.” Although Tommy left the arts school before he graduated and joined the National Guard, she said he never stopped art, and said, “He loves it. He’s very artistic and creative.”

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