Thousands of miles away from here in
a tiny west coast town, a sad community buried two of their young people last week.
It seems like another time when the headlines about young people being
shot
were mostly in urban areas. It is still the stuff of legend, so to speak.
A child, it seems, is now more at risk of being shot in the suburbs
than in the city.
Now, it seems that the subject of the reasons why kids kill is
important.
There once was a time when the act of a child pulling a trigger was
considered by some to be a behavior somehow deemed victimless.
School shootings were tied to drugs, gang activity, or any of a number
of other "issues" that were of little interest to the rest of America, tucked
away in their little hamlets and cul de sacs.
We, as a people, have been burying our children, who were killed in
many
cases by other children, for a long time now. In fact, many of us are wondering
about why there is all the hoopla over it now. The answer to that is rather obvious.
The drug epidemic of the 60s, 70s and 80s in our communities
didnt
get national attention until people were smoking crack in barns and cornfields in the 80s
and 90s. It appears the same pattern of delayed awareness has hit the country
relative to gun violence.
Last week, several children in suburban areas were caught with weapons
in their school. The youngest was eight years old. Where are they getting the
weapons from?
In many of the cases it is the parents, who somehow forgot the days
when they were young, and could get over, around, and through the restrictions and blocks
of their own parents.
The seeds of violence are more likely to grow when the ground around it
is
fertile. All the talk about the influence of television, and records and movies in
my opinion is only valid in the absence of easy access to weapons of death.
In a city where many of the same problems related to drugs, gangs and poor
conflict resolving skills still exist, we have been spared from the scenes so
many children in the suburbs have been exposed to. This is in great part due
to tighter security measures taken at many of our schools, with metal detectors at our
urban schools.
Kids will always pick on kids.
It happened when I was a student in the hallways of JHS 192. But in my
opinion, the factor that makes these times different from generations past is the
accessibility. There are more than 270 million guns in the United States.
Thats is almost as many guns as people. For what?
The other factor appears to be the pent up energy factor. Several
years ago a Republican-controlled Congress took money away from "after-school"
programs because it seemed that they werent needed.
Now it seems there could be a move to put the money back.
After decades of one stigma it appears that it is little Johnny and
little Jamal that people need to be afraid of. For a myriad of reasons that also includes
being a product of their so-called environment. It appears that even two parents,
who have set up so-called traditional homes, can indeed raise kids who are capable of
murder. Yet all I have heard about these kids is how nice they were and how
something else is to blame for their unspeakable acts of evil.
He doesnt have to be the kid of a crack-drowned prostitute, with
an unknown dad, living in public housing.
Maybe at the end of all the socio-psycho examination into the problem of gun violence
someone will figure out that without the gun, there is no gun violence.
Sure it may involve knives, fists, sticks or stones, but the magnitude of the
damage will be minimal. Also maybe they will realize the problems of white
kids in the country arent much different than kids of color in the cities.
They are all looking for love, guidance, discipline and they depend on us,
the grown ups, to keep them safe.
Gary Anthony Ramsay is a weekend anchor
and journalist on the all-news
cable station NY1 and along-time resident of Queens.