Right now, there are adults working
hard in our community to help kids go through a transformation. When the metamorphosis is
complete, those kids will likely dress a little differently, speak less crassly, and maybe
even think differently.
And this transformation will also change the goals of the individual
children. Some will want it to be permanent while others will just want to be able to put
on the new philosophy and then take it off when the mood suits them.
The people guiding them through the changes want these young people to
understand that there is another side to life and that to reach it, the young people need
to "do as the Romans do."
These are young people whose peers dont communicate the way the
"outside world" does.
Many parrot platitudes theyve heard from records of performers,
stringing together unrelated expressions with the phrase "You know what Im
saying?" I answer, "No I dont, thats why Id like you to tell
me."
In that "outside world" that sets policy, hires people and
fires people, language can determine how far a person can go and how much success they
will have. The exception to this rule are the lucky ones who bypass all this with some
extra ordinary gift, be it athletic, physical features, or lyrical dexterity.
And many of our young people seem to share a belief that they will be
the "one" or "two" to find extreme success without a formal education
or even a basic understanding of communication skills. Armed with these grossly erroneous
beliefs, many abandon their efforts to learn how to speak and those who still make an
effort to learn are scoffed at and ridiculed. They are told theyre "Trying to
be white," "fronting," "profiling" or any number of other put
downs issued by what, at times, seems like the majority.
The taunting generally accomplishes its purpose, which seems to be to
keep as many people around you as ignorant as possible so the really ignorant people can
feel normal.
It amazes me that in this 21st Century culture, people are still
running down education and proper English which can either help or hurt ones ability
to get a foothold in the part of society that controls a majority of the opportunities.
Then the same misguided philosophers complain about why people seem to be blocked from
social, cultural and, more importantly, economic parts of society.
Our kids risk much by bucking the education system.
And then there is the Business Leaders of Tomorrow, or B.L.O.T, on
Jamaica Avenue, trying to buck them right back.
B.L.O.T. is just one of a few community-based groups providing a haven
for young people who are trying to break away from a anti-education mold. The result of
their work isnt something that the community feels immediately.
Those who go on to college or to trade schools are mostly silent
tributes to the work of B.L.O.T.
One of their successes has written a book and will be honored by the
group in the spring, but the majority are still works in progress.
Will all the money being donated to this good cause and that, there are
still many good causes right here B.L.O.T., the Million Man March committee of
Queens and others that use their limited resources to help as many kids as they
can.
When one is in familiar surroundings, its okay to communicate in
a familiar way. But it is just like being a visitor in a foreign country, if you try to
force your way down someone elses throat youre likely to starve simply because
you dont know how to get something to eat. The real world right here is no
different.